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How Good is Your Team at Relationship Selling?

Posted by Mark Trinkle on Thu, Jan 08, 2026
 
Your salespeople have about seven seconds to make a strong first impression. Trust starts right away. That might sound overwhelming to you and to them, but as a sales leader, it is your role to help them master these skills to build long-lasting relationships through relationship selling.
 

Relationship Selling Key #1: Building Trust

Trust is the foundation of any great relationship, whether it is with family, friends, or a spouse. But in sales, building trust is a different ballgame.

When we work with salespeople, the first thing we tackle is mindset. If they believe it takes a long time to build a relationship, then it probably will. If they believe they need to be liked to win business, they will focus all their energy on being likable. But here is the truth: what they do drives their results.

If prospects are not setting appointments after a call, or if your salespeople are not converting those appointments into opportunities, do not just assume the prospect was not qualified. Instead, take a deeper look at your salesperson’s relationship-building behaviors. This is where coaching can help.

What are your people doing to nurture and develop strong relationships? Are they proactively and consistently talking with a prospect and offering industry-related and value-added information? If they are only focused on making the sale, they may turn off a possible prospect. There is a direct link between how your salespeople build trust and the results they are getting.

Relationship Selling Key #2: Being Consultative

Trust matters, but so does the ability to be consultative. Take some time to think about how skilled your salespeople are at:

  • Staying present in the conversation

  • Uncovering compelling reasons for the prospect to buy

  • Asking strong, thoughtful questions

  • Truly listening to their answers and asking additional questions

  • Understanding how they will make their decision

  • Presenting solutions at the right time

  • Maintaining a healthy dose of skepticism

If your salespeople take this approach, prospects feel heard. That builds the kind of trust that leads to real opportunities.

Relationship Selling Key #3: Making a Commitment

Your salespeople can do everything right, build trust, and follow a consultative process, but they can still hit a wall. Why? Because forces are working against them:

  • Prospects are distracted

  • They think they already know the answers

  • They have had negative past experiences with salespeople

That is why delivery matters. If your people can communicate in a way that captures the prospect’s attention and creates a compelling conversation, the prospect will give them a chance. Your salespeople also need the confidence to believe they are the professional in the room. They must break the mold by not looking, acting, or sounding like every other salesperson.

Relationship selling is a commitment to making a conscious, daily decision to do it well. It requires always working on and improving relationship-building skills. It takes practice, focus, and the belief that relationship-building is critical to success. Your role as a coach is to ensure that this is happening with your team.

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26 Sales Tips for 2026 from the Sales Experts

Posted by Anthony Cole Training Group on Fri, Jan 02, 2026

A new year brings new goals, new targets, and new opportunities. But while markets evolve and tools change, the fundamentals of sales success remain the same. The biggest gains in 2026 will not come from chasing trends. They will come from consistent execution of proven behaviors!

These 26 sales tips are not meant to be revolutionary. They are reminders of what works. Use them to sharpen your focus, strengthen your discipline, and build momentum throughout the year.

Sales Prospecting Tips

“Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it.” – Henry David Thoreau

  1. Respond promptly to inquiries. Sixty-three percent of buyers expect a same-day response.
  2. Pick up the phone and make the call. Do it consistently, every work day.
  3. Stay committed to follow-up. It often takes 14 attempts to reach a contact, yet most salespeople stop after three or four.
  4. Ask for testimonials, reviews, and introductions from your best clients. When people go looking for services, reviews and introductions are valuable credibility points.
  5. Fall in love with the word “no.” It helps you avoid wasting time with unqualified prospects.
  6. Use tools like scorecards to identify higher-quality opportunities early. Download our free Prospect Scorecard here.
  7. Make sure you are talking to decision-makers who have the authority to say yes or no.
  8. Close the initial call with this question: “Is your problem just a problem, or is it a priority?”

Sales Planning and Time Management

“What gets scheduled gets done.” – Michael Hyatt

  1. Put your work plan in writing. Put your 2026 work plan (not business plan) in writing, sign and date it, make a copy for you and your manager, review it during each and every coaching session. To start, download our free sales work plan template.
  2. Commit to measurable weekly activities that drive new business, like number of outreaches, conversations and meetings.
  3. Guard your calendar. Treat prospecting appointments on your calendar as non-negotiable.
  4. Remember that time manages itself. You get 1,440 minutes each day. Use them intentionally.
  5. Schedule prospecting and preparation time before the week begins, not after it fills up.
  6. Review your pipeline weekly to stay proactive instead of reactive.

Selling and Qualification

Approach each customer with the idea of helping him or her solve a problem or achieve a goal, not of selling a product or service.” — Brian Tracy

  1. Use technology but keep your approach personal. Automation should support relationships, not replace them.
  2. Follow your sales process, even when a prospect seems eager to buy.
  3. Do not rush to provide a proposal before fully understanding the prospect’s needs and challenges. Use this free worksheet on drill-down questions that will help you uncover your prospect’s motivations and plan.
  4. Stop selling on price. Believe in the value of what you offer and do not waver.
  5. Focus on helping, not closing. Aim to make the prospect smarter for having met with you.
  6. Create a reasonable sense of urgency around action, both for yourself and your sales team, if you are a manager.
  7. Use clear, non-offensive closing questions to confirm alignment and next steps.

Sales Mindset and Commitment

“Confidence comes from discipline and training.” – Robert Kiyosaki

  1. Stay committed, even when the work gets uncomfortable. Conditional commitment leads to inconsistent results.
  2. Be curious. Ask questions and have real conversations without the pressure to perform. Always keep learning. Start by downloading our free sales eBooks here!
  3. Celebrate wins and learn from losses. Both are part of long-term success.
  4. Encourage and support your teammates every single day. Sales is a team effort.
  5. Use new tools, including AI, to improve preparation and efficiency, but never let them replace genuine human connection.

As you move into 2026, do not feel pressure to master all 26 tips at once. Choose a few, commit to them fully, and execute with discipline. Consistent behaviors, applied over time, are what separate good salespeople from great ones.

Go make 2026 a year defined by focus, effort, and follow-through!

Happy Holidays from Anthony Cole Training Group

Posted by Mark Trinkle on Fri, Dec 26, 2025

As 2025 winds to a close, the team at Anthony Cole Training Group is enjoying the holiday season and deeply grateful for 3 things:

  1. The gratifying work we are able to do
  2. The dedicated team we have that works together
  3. Our amazing clients whom we get to work with

Our passion for unleashing greatness in salespeople is greatly enhanced by the wonderful relationships with companies and individuals all over the country. As we count our blessings, please know how much you mean to us and that we will continue to be invested in your team’s success in the coming years. Regardless of whether or not you are a client, or a friend, or if you simply follow our content online, we are here for you and stand ready to help you unleash your greatness!

December is such a special time of year as it reminds us all of the power of hope. In the movie The Shawshank Redemption, Andy says to Red, “Hope is a good thing…maybe the best of things.” From our company to yours, we hope your 2026 is filled with joyful hope for an even better tomorrow and an abundance of success building and growing your business! 

Value-Based Selling in Financial Services: What Top Performers Do

Posted by Tony Cole on Thu, Dec 18, 2025

You may have heard the term value-based selling but may not fully understand what it means or what it entails. Value-based selling in financial services is an approach that places clients and their financial concerns and challenges at the forefront. It does not focus on communicating what you do, but rather the value of what you do.

Value selling in financial services is a powerful differentiator because, when done well, financial services salespeople help customers navigate some of their most important life decisions, such as buying a home or investing for retirement. 

Value-based selling is client-centered. Once you become masterful in this approach, you will know who to help and how your guidance will benefit them. Value-based selling also provides insight into why prospects and clients want and need your products, services, and advice.

Value-Based Selling Is Rooted in Motivation

In your role as a financial services salesperson, your customer often needs to make a change, and change is difficult. Statistics around diet and exercise are proof of that. Unfortunately, many things people are supposed to do simply do not happen.

Value selling in financial services is no different. Change is not easy for those you meet and advise. The equation for change has two forces working against each other: escaping how things are now and resisting change itself. Value-based selling requires motivating your client to change, and in some cases, motivating yourself to change your approach as well.

The Importance of Value-Based Selling

Inevitably, customers will have reservations about a product or service. That is why an effective value-based selling approach first centers on the client and their needs, while secondarily demonstrating your company’s value and guiding them through the sales process.

The measure of value you provide depends entirely on the client. You can offer the same solution to two different people and receive two very different reactions.

For example, imagine discussing an inheritance a prospect has recently received. They may or may not share everything you need to know to advise them properly. Through strong questioning and listening skills, you must uncover what matters most to them. It could be rate of return, safety, or liquidity. You should also understand how this asset fits into their broader financial picture.

Once you identify their needs and goals, you can make a value-based recommendation. Too often, salespeople begin the conversation by discussing their solutions. A value-based seller starts with the prospect, asks thoughtful questions, uncovers priorities, and then makes a recommendation. Helping the client understand the benefits of working with you and your firm comes last.

When you help customers clearly see the best solution for their situation, you earn the business nine times out of ten.

Value-based selling is the proven path to becoming a trusted advisor. Your greatest value is often revealed through the depth and quality of the questions you ask. Strong value-based sellers remain curious and strive to add value in every interaction, whether through insight, resources, stories, or even appropriate humor.

Tips for Practicing Value-Based Selling

Giving Instead of Selling

The most important principle of value-based selling is focusing on giving to clients, not selling to them. The book Go-Givers Sell More reinforces this mindset. Unlike other methodologies, value-based selling focuses on what the client wants and how you can help them achieve their goals.

Value-based selling in financial services is a relationship-building process that is often personal. A key part of your value is the process you guide clients through as you provide advice and solutions.

Giving a Listening Ear

You may have experienced someone asking you a question and interrupting before you finish answering. It does not feel good. Unfortunately, financial services salespeople are often guilty of this behavior.

You might ask a client what they plan to use funds for and then immediately jump to a product recommendation without further exploration. Using a value-based selling approach means diving deeper into discovery, asking better questions, and truly listening.

Skilled salespeople know that trust is built through listening. Challenge yourself to ask as many questions as possible before proposing a solution. This skill improves with practice.

Spend Time Getting to Know Your Client

Every client is different. The early stages of the relationship should be focused on learning as much as possible about them. Understanding how similar clients have been helped and sharing relevant examples builds credibility.

Your products may be available elsewhere, but your experience uncovering issues and solving similar challenges is what highlights your value.

Follow Through with a Consistent Process

Value selling in financial services is not easy. Becoming proficient requires consistent focus, effort, and discipline. Through thousands of evaluations, we know that elite salespeople follow a consistent sales process because it works.

Strong value-based sellers care just as much about the benefits their clients receive as they do about the sale itself.

A value-based selling strategy is essential to improving your sales plan and results. This approach positions you as a trusted business advisor and helps build strong, long-term client relationships.

Below are the value-based selling competencies identified by our partner, Objective Management Group, the number one sales evaluation and assessment tool in the industry.

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Does Your Team Have the “Will to Sell”?

Posted by Guest Author on Fri, Dec 12, 2025
 
This article was originally published by Objective Management Group and written by Kate Barsby, VP of Marketing at OMG. It is shared here with permission. Anthony Cole Training Group is a Certified OMG Partner, helping organizations hire and develop high-performing sales teams using OMG’s industry-leading assessments and insights.
 
At Anthony Cole Training Group, we partner with Objective Management Group, the industry leader in sales force evaluation and predictive sales performance data. As an authorized OMG distributor, we use their research and competency insights to help sales leaders understand what truly drives performance beyond skills and process. In this guest blog, OMG explores one of the most critical and challenging areas of sales effectiveness, Will to Sell, and explains why internal drive, mindset, and accountability are often the hardest factors to improve, yet the most important predictors of long-term success.
 

Why This Competency Group Is the Hardest to Improve 

When you think about improving your sales team’s performance, you probably start with skills: questioning techniques, qualifying, closing, or navigating the buyer’s process. Skills matter. They are visible, coachable, and measurable. But skills alone do not determine whether a salesperson succeeds. 

At the foundation of your team’s performance lies something more intrinsic and far harder to shape: their Will to Sell. 

Our partners frequently tell us that leaders can train skills, implement processes, and improve coaching. But they cannot easily teach the internal drive that fuels sustained sales effort. That is why Will to Sell consistently emerges as the most difficult competency group to develop or change. You can train skills, implement processes, and refine coaching. But you cannot easily teach the internal drive that fuels sustained sales effort. 

Will to Sell is the engine behind behaviors you see every day: effort, resilience, follow-through, accountability, and the willingness to do the difficult work on a consistent basis. Understanding it gives you the clearest, most accurate picture of how your team will perform in real-world selling situations. 

What Exactly Is “Will to Sell”? 

OMG’s Will to Sell competency group includes five core competencies that sit at the heart of drive and effort: 

  1. Desire – How badly a salesperson wants to achieve sales success 
  2. Commitment – Their willingness to do the necessary, often uncomfortable work to reach their goals
  3. Motivation – Whether they have a compelling “Why” and a path to achieve it 
  4. Responsibility – Whether they take ownership for outcomes or fall back on excuses
  5. Outlook – Their mindset, optimism, and emotional response to adversity 

Together, these competencies reveal who each person on your team is at their core. They influence everything from activity levels to resilience, long before any selling skill comes into play. 

Why Will to Sell Is the Hardest Part of Sales Performance to Improve 

You can train a salesperson to ask better questions or follow a qualification process. You can coach objection handling or help them navigate a complex deal. 

But you cannot directly teach someone to want success more. You cannot force resilience. You cannot coach genuine accountability into someone who prefers excuses. 

There are three primary reasons why improving Will to Sell is uniquely challenging: 

  1. These competencies come from deeply rooted beliefs and habits.

Accountability, commitment, and optimism are built over years. Training alone for 6 to 9 months is not enough to replace long-standing patterns of behavior. 

  1. Motivation is personal and often misunderstood.

Many leaders assume compensation drives performance. OMG data shows that the majority of salespeople actually have an intrinsic motivation style. Only about a quarter  of salespeople are extrinsically motivated. If you coach or reward your team in ways that conflict with how they are wired, motivation will decline rather than increase. 

  1. Will to Sell influences behavior before skill ever shows up. 

Low commitment, a negative outlook, or weak responsibility typically results in: 

  • inconsistent activity 
  • lack of follow-through 
  • missed pipeline milestones 
  • avoidance of difficult conversations 
  • difficulty bouncing back from setbacks 

Training cannot compensate for the absence of effort. This is why many teams struggle to see lasting improvement, even after investing heavily in training programs. 

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What Shapes Your Team’s Will to Sell? 

OMG’s decades of research show several key factors that significantly influence Will to Sell. 

Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic Motivation 

Salespeople perform best when their environment aligns with their dominant motivational style. Coaching against this natural wiring can quickly reduce motivation. 

Mindset and Beliefs 

A salesperson with a limited outlook or negative mindset will struggle with rejection, adversity, and uncertainty. These internal beliefs shape how consistently they pursue opportunities. 

Commitment to Do the Hard Things 

Commitment is not about intensity. It is about consistency. A committed salesperson does the difficult work even when they do not feel like it. Someone who is merely “interested” in success will only do the work when it feels convenient. 

Accountability 

Excuse-makers rarely perform at a high level because they attribute problems to external circumstances rather than actions they can control. 

Understanding these influences helps you see why Will to Sell matters so deeply and why it is such a powerful predictor of performance. 

Desire and Commitment Are Important, but They Do Not Tell the Whole Story 

Desire and Commitment are strong leading indicators. Salespeople who score high in these competencies typically: 

  • ramp faster 
  • adopt coaching more readily 
  • embrace new processes 
  • stay consistent when pressure increases 

However, Desire and Commitment alone do not determine whether a sales candidate is recommended on OMG’s Sales Candidate Assessment. 

Your candidates and team members must be evaluated against all 21 Core Sales Competencies, including: 

  • Qualifying 
  • Consultative Selling Capabilities 
  • Overcoming a Desire for Approval 
  • Reaching Decision Makers 
  • Efficient Use of Sales Technology  
  • Staying in the Moment During a Sales 

A salesperson with strong internal drive, but major skill gaps, may struggle to perform in certain roles. Likewise, someone with strong skills but weak will often fails to execute consistently. This is why OMG’s recommendation algorithm evaluates the entire competency profile, role requirements, and predictive performance DNA. 

The Bottom Line: Do Your Salespeople Have the Will to Sell? 

Will to Sell is the foundation that determines whether your people will execute, improve, and perform under pressure. It shapes resilience, accountability, and effort, and it is the single hardest competency group to improve once someone is already in the role. 

If you want to build a high-performing team, you need to understand who has the internal drive to succeed, who needs development, and where the risk areas lie. 

Evaluating your team’s Will to Sell—alongside all 21 Core Sales Competencies—gives you the clearest path to hiring stronger salespeople, developing your current team, and building a sales organization designed to win. 

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